In many ways, boundaries are the beginning of personal and spiritual freedom. I did not always know how to set boundaries. I had to go to therapy to learn how to set boundaries, and I wish I had done it sooner. Before I set boundaries, I felt like I was being run raggedy trying to... Continue Reading →
As I get older there are some songs that I just cannot listen to with the same intensity that I did when I was younger. At times I feel as if the banging beats give me a headache. Do not get me wrong, I love music of all kinds, but some music I can only... Continue Reading →
Am I taking responsibility for my actions or am I looking for a way to find peace without self-edification? I've noticed recently that people have gravitated toward belief systems that don’t cause them to have to take responsibility for their actions. Everyone else is the negative energy that they need to keep themselves from. They... Continue Reading →
Do you remember when you made an earnest request before the creator asking and hoping for the things you have now? Do you remember feelings of sorrow and crying out wishing for your prayers to be answered? What happened when your request was granted? What happened when you realize that you were living in the... Continue Reading →
Has it ever seemed like everything good was happening for everyone else except you? You are barely able to maintain your job, while others are getting promotions. You may be having family problems, while others seem to have happiness in their families. It can be very disheartening to feel that you must continually give congratulations.... Continue Reading →
Projection happens when people try to mirror their inner conflicts onto you. It happens all the time. When I say all the time I mean all the time. It’s a way a person defends themselves and attributes the traits that they are secretly unhappy about in themselves onto you.I wasn’t always so cognizant of what... Continue Reading →
When I read this I asked myself what roles has society given me? Have I accepted those roles? If a new reality is available to me why have I accepted this reality? How much of what I think is assigned to me did I actually nominate myself for? Society has tried to dictate what jobs... Continue Reading →
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